How it works

Matchmaking is a craft. Here's how we do it at Mingle Up.

  1. 01

    Tell us about you

    A 5-minute intake covers what you value, who you're hoping to meet, and the life you're building. The more you share, the better we match.

  2. 02

    Meet your matchmaker

    A friendly 30-minute call (free of charge) so we can get past the form and understand the person behind it.

  3. 03

    Curated introductions

    We hand-pick singles from our member base who fit your values, lifestyle, and chemistry — not your filters.

  4. 04

    We arrange the date

    We book the time and place. You show up. No coordinating, no calendar tag, no awkward 'where should we meet?'.

  5. 05

    We refine as we go

    After each date, a quick debrief with your matchmaker. We learn from every introduction and your next match gets sharper.

Premium Service

Personalised Matchmaking & Grooming

Great matches start with a confident, well-presented you. Our premium members get a complete transformation programme — image, style, communication and dating confidence — built around their personality and goals.

Grooming consultation

Hair, skincare and grooming routine tailored to your features and lifestyle, with trusted partner salons and clinics.

Style & wardrobe coaching

A personal stylist audits your wardrobe and curates date-ready outfits that reflect the best version of you.

Professional photoshoot

A relaxed shoot with a top photographer so your profile and first impressions feel authentically you — never staged.

Confidence & communication

1:1 sessions on conversation, body language and emotional presence so first dates feel natural, not nerve-wracking.

Dedicated matchmaker

Your matchmaker handpicks every introduction, briefs you before each date and debriefs after — full white-glove service.

Date concierge

We book the venue, time and any reservations so all you have to do is show up and enjoy the evening.

What's included in the premium journey

  • In-depth personality & values assessment
  • Personal image and colour analysis
  • Wardrobe styling session with a personal stylist
  • Grooming session at a partner salon
  • Professional dating photoshoot
  • Date coaching & conversation practice
  • Hand-selected, vetted introductions
  • Pre-date briefing & post-date debrief
  • Ongoing relationship guidance

Start with a free intake

Five minutes today, a real date in your calendar within weeks.

Apply to join